Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Our Weekend with Daddy






It was so nice to spend 2 whole days with dad without work interruptions. We were lucky enough to relax around the house and each child had some nice one on one. Alyssa likes to set up store in her bedroom and have daddy come shop. We have bags of little girls toys in our room now, but that's o.k. because she had a lot of fun. She also likes to get dressed up and have tea parties with dad. I'm not sure if Daddy actually eats any of the cookies or drinks any of the water- you never know where it came from:)

Chandler and Daddy enjoyed a lot of "Lock Time". A fun game where Daddy holds Chandler really tight and Chandler has to try and break free. There is a lot of tickling and giggling that happens and while this may seem silly - Chandler Loves to be held.

Spencer and Daddy enjoyed a couple games of Baseball on Daddy's X-Box. Daddy had the controller that was connected and Spencer played with the one that had no batteries, but he sure enjoyed winning!

When we were done relaxing - we took a nice stroll through the mall and enjoyed the ice cream of our choice from a Midwest Favorite Ice Cream shop - Whitey's. Each of the children enjoyed picking out a book from Barnes and Noble and of course some lunch in the food court.

We ended our weekend of special time with Daddy by playing at the park near our house and some really yummy watermelon.

9 more days of baseball games for Daddy before another day off! Whew, We can't wait! We sure love you Daddy!

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Remember when



Remember when you were so little and had no cares in the world.
Remember when you were tired, you just fell asleep wherever you were and knew that when you woke up you would be in your own bed.

Lately Spencer has been trying to go without naps during the day, He thinks he is getting too big for that kind of stuff. It works some days and he goes to bed at 8pm and wakes up at 7:30am. Then there are others that he just doesn't make it through dinner before he's done.

Friday, April 18, 2008

The Stairs - more like a slide

When we first moved into the house, Spencer had some adjusting to do with living in a house with stairs. He took a few tumbles - but after some coaching (from the other kids) he has learned the best way to tackle them. It sometimes becomes a game - but I'll let the video speak for itself.

Finally....

Ten weeks.
70 Days.
Two months and two weeks.

That's how long it's been since my last day off. This weekend, that changes.

The team is on a road trip this weekend, and we have no other events at the ballpark, so for the first time in just over two months I will be spending the weekend with my family without distraction. We will have the opportunity to attend church together, eat meals together and just hang out. I really don't care if we do anything at all, as long as we are doing nothing together.

The pregnancy is in the home stretch, and Melinda is ready to have our baby. We have a name picked out, but we are not telling anyone, so for the sake of conversations you can call her Agnus. Agnus is very active, moving a lot, keeping Mom awake at night and making her uncomfortable. We are far from prepared for her arrival, but we could not be happier that she is coming.

Chandler is doing much better in school, and he is now on medication that will help with his ADHD. The medication is proving it's worth, and he seems to be doing better in school. This week, Melinda is taking him to the University of Iowa for further testing and evaluation. The greatest thing through all of this is his willingness to participate and "get better". He fully recognizes his issues and wants them to get better. He really has a sweet spirit.

A couple of weeks ago, Chandler took another tumble down the stairs (a result of his desire to walk down the stairs with his eyes closed, not the best choice), he bit through his tongue and bled for quite a long time. Of course, there is nothing the doctors can do for that, so he was on a ice cream diet for a few days - he didn't mind the diet.

Alyssa continues to grow and do new things every day. She is an amazing little girl, and I often wonder where the last four years have gone. She promised me that she would live next door to me for the rest of her life (after she gets married to someone that I totally approve of, just after her 40th birthday). She is a fantastic big (and little) sister, and has now moved into the Haanah Montana stage of her life. I think Alyssa sings better.

Spencer can throw better than most of the infielders on my team, and that's not a slight on the infielders. For a 19 month old, he has a fantastic arm, with tremendous accuracy. I'm not saying we throw him into the majors right now, but in the future - I know some people, and salaries are only going up.

As for me, I think I am finally adapting to life in the mid west again. The hardest part is how much I miss everyone we left behind. You don't realize how much you rely on those around you until they are not around you anymore. I am still working 14 hour days, but it only takes me six minutes to get home, so when I leave work at 7:00, I am home not to long after that. I get to take Chandler to school every day (and next year, Alyssa too!), and the three minutes we get to spend in the car every morning are the best three minutes of my entire day. I have an amazing family and I am so grateful that I found Melinda and that she agreed to spend the rest of eternity with me and our children. She amazes me every day. Just looking at her humbles me and reminds me how lucky I am.

Tomorrow - well I don't know what we will do tomorrow. All I know is we are going to be doing it together. I could not ask for a better way to spend a Saturday.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Clay Bennett is a Liar


I have to admit something. I believed Clay Bennett and his partners when they made the announcement that they would try everything in their power to secure a successor facility to Key Arena in Seattle.

Right up until I decided to end my employment with the Sonics, I believed Clay Bennett. I believed him when he told me in person that he was going to do everything he could personally to ensure the future of basketball in Seattle was secure for future generations of fans, including my children.

I was wrong, and Clay Bennett is a liar. I wish I could have married into money, bought myself an NBA team, completely alienate the fans of the city in which I purchased the team and then file for relocation to my home town and become a hero there. I wish I could have lied my way into a purchase agreement in which a portion of the document spoke specifically to the effort that I would have to make to secure a building and then do nothing to honor that agreement. I have to admit - the liar did a pretty good job swindling one of the best business people on the planet - Howard Schultz.

I hope he sleeps good at night knowing that he has screwed with the lives of 125 fantastic employees, of whom defend him on a daily basis with a baseless argument. It's actually about 123 amazing employees, there are two that I can't stand and who really should be selling cars instead of trying to convince the public to buy season tickets to a team that is horrible and has no chance of remaining in the Emerald City past 2010.

I guess I figured it out when he asked State and City leadership to build a 500 million dollar arena. 500 million dollars. You can get an amazing state of the art, high tech, NBA ready arena for 300 million - I suppose the other 200 million was to line the club seats with gold, or to provide Mr. Bennett with an endless supply of cheeseburgers from his favorite burger joint (he doesn't miss many meals).

Still, even after I began to understand he was asking for the moon, knowing that the city of Seattle would not cooperate - mostly because Seattle is not a progressive city, and does not see the tax dollars that would be generated not only from basketball, but from concerts that they are losing to Tacoma and Portland, floor shows and national political conventions. Seattle doesn't get it - but certainly some sort of agreement could have been reached for say, 300 million. Things like this don't get done, mostly because Mayor Greg Nickels is possible the dumbest human being on earth. This guy just does not have a clue -at all. I can not express how useless he is, and how I hope at election time, the voters remember how useless he is. I would make a special olympics comparison here, but that would be an insult to all of the special olympians. That is, if there was a good faith effort on the ownerships part at all. Clearly, there was not.

You see Clay, nobody believes you anymore. Front office employees are leaving at a record pace, and those who remain behind are either looking or have drank the Bennett cool-aid and don't know that the rug is going to be pulled out from under them. Or, maybe you promised them jobs in OKC, or maybe they are staying because of the great incentive plan you laid out for them to stay until the end (10% of salary or 15% of salary dependent on how long you have been with the club and your position).

Clay, you can do what you want with the team. It's yours, and nobody is disputing that. I would have respected you more if you would have just told the truth from the beginning. I have no issue with you buying the team and relocating it, if you are up front about it.

Seattle will be without the NBA. Still, Seattle is in need of a new building. They will never attract those events listed above with Key Arena as the centerpiece of a complex that has been dead for years. The city needs to develop that area so tax dollars can be generated to help schools and fix roads. But this time, you won't have an anchor tenant to help foot the bill. In addition, even if the Sonics leave after their lease expires in 2010, the city will still owe some 25 million dollars on the bonds use to develop Key Arena. If they were smart, and there not, they would use that as a buyout for the Sonics and Clay Bennett to get out of town. Instead, we will have an empty arena with no basketball, no concerts and only WNBA basketball in the Summer (I love the WNBA, I think it's fantastic - but it is not going to pay off the bonds by itself).

My time as a Sonics employee gave me many memories that will last a lifetime. I truly had my dream job, and left only because of personal reasons. I just feel bad that I believed in Clay so much, I lied to fans for months telling them we would get something done in Seattle and that our ownership group was working hard to do it.

But since you weren't I hope you burn. There is a special place for people like you in the great beyond. I hope you get to heaven at at the gates, they decide to relocate you.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Play Ball!!





So After being rained out on their opening night, Baseball in the Quad Cities played their first game the very next night in a balming 60 degrees.

Cory's responsibilities were many, but he still managed to make time to come and visit a few times. Here are some highlights of the Riverbandits Home opener and their beloved mascot, Rascal the Racoon

Just playing around

Baseball in the Backyard.